Transitioning 101

Hi darlings!
I've been getting a lot of questions about transitioning and how to do it. So I have decided to give you all a little crash course on the matter. I will be making a video on this so definitely watch out for that, but just in case you cannot wait. Here are a few tips for long term transitioning:

Step 1

 * Make a Pros and Cons list
Why do you think transitioning is better than doing a big chop? Are you afraid of how you will look without all your hair? These are important questions to ask yourself. After you have made your list take a look at mine.

Pros

1. You  get to keep the length of your hair
2. You get a glimpse of your natural hair without fully committing
3. You can use some of the same products you already own.

 Cons

1. You have to deal with two different hair textures
2. It takes a longer time for you to get acquainted with your natural hair
3. You won't know what products work best for your curls until you are almost completely natural.

Okay so you've thought it over and you decided that this is definitely the route you want to take. Now it's time to move on.

Step 2

* Stop perming your hair.

It's just that simple. There is no magic potion or detox, you just get off the creamy crack! Miss a touch up and see how long you can go without reaching for a relaxing kit. I dare ya! Just teasing. You can do it. Notice that new hair that's coming in. I know we were taught to believe that this new hair was forbidden but it's really not. It's yours and you should just embrace it.

Step 3

* Get some new stuff

You're heading into new territory here and your new hair needs new things baby. However, because you are still holding on to most of the perm you can still keep some of those styling creams you used for your straight hair. when buying these products you will find that they can be a tad more expensive than the stuff you used before but try not to think of it as just spending money. It is an investment in your hair future. Most of the products on your List if not all can be found at stores like Bed Bath and Beyond or Sally's.  Here is your new shopping list:

1. Wide Tooth comb
2. Hair oils such as coconut and almond
3. Sulfate free shampoo's
4. Hair ties and bands without metal hooks
5. Bobby pins
6. Flexi - Rods and hair rollers.
7. Deep Conditioner
8. Pomade for edges
9. Silk or satin Bonnet and scarves
10. Good hair Moisturizer
11. Non - alcoholic gel.

 * For shampoo's and conditioners, try brands like One and Only Argan Oil, Organix, or Curls.
 * Make sure that what ever brand you choose says SULFATE FREE!
 * Get oils that are unrefined and virgin.
 * Try a gel like Eco-Styler, which can be found at your local beauty supply.

 Okay! So what's next? Don't get too caught up in the relaxed hair. It is only a cushion until you grow out your natural hair.

Step 4

* Start fresh

Get a haircut, make sure your hair is evenly trimmed. Try to make it as easy as possible to maintain. Now you can start this new journey without having to worry about split ends.

Step 5

* Protect and serve

It is important for you to keep your hair healthy. At this point, your hair is used to relaxers and may break if not treated well. Here are a few ways to make sure your hair gets some TLC.

1. Deep condition about once a week. 
2. Try protective styling like Bantu knot-outs and flexi-rod sets         
3. Apply oils to hair and ends to seal in moisture.
4. Stay away from heat. If you can air dry, do it.
5. Try putting your hair away, Braids and buns are a good way to take advantage of having length.
6. Stay away from products containing alcohol.

 And that's it! 5 easy steps to get you going. Treat your hair with care. There  is a lot of help out there for you if you seek it. You can also look up the girls on YouTube. And because you have been such good listeners, I am going to leave you with a few tips and tricks.


Steaming

When deep conditioning, steam is a great way to get the most out of the process. I suggest  you try it in the shower first but if you don't want to you can always buy a hair steamer or hooded hair dryer. If you are low on cash, put a damp towel in the microwave for about 1 min and then wrap it around your conditioned head. Just be careful not to burn yourself. Shake the towel a bit before placing it on your head.




Braiding

 Braids can be a great way to hide your two hair textures. You can braid it all up or simply braid just the front in a little style and curl the rest. Use your pomade to slick down your edges and you can get up and go for the entire week almost. Just remember to use the flexi-Rods for heat-less curls. They can even be put in at night. Put on your satin bonnet and you are off to bed.









Headbands and scarves 

They can be quite useful when you are going for a quick bun. Just use your pomade or non- alcoholic gel and slip the headband on.

Wigs

I know you want to embrace your hair but i think it's just fine to throw on a wig when you are on the go. Try  something with a little texture so you can get more comfortable with the coming kinks. The important thing is to not neglect the hair underneath. I suggest you wear the wig only when you don't have time to do your own hair and do not sleep in it. Apply your coconut oil before you put on the wig or some leave in conditioner to keep your hair moisturized. This wig is by Beshe and can be bought at Hairwigharlem.com

Well that's it guys! I really hope you found this informative and helpful. Check back soon for more. Any questions or concerns can be left in the comments section. Much love and happy Transitioning!